Sunday, March 22, 2009

The year is at the spring
The day is at the morn
The morning is at seven
The hillside is dew- pearled
And all is right with the world.

Though Robert Browning has written these lines to portray one fresh spring morning in Paris, on that day, I was actually experiencing the sparkle in the poem at Mumbai.
There was one more variation in my case; the ‘dew-pearled hillside’ was replaced by lustrous sky-scrappers at Hiranandani Gardens, Powai.

On that day, I was assigned the duty of an escort for the chief-guest of the national seminar arranged by my B-school.
The job-profile of ‘an escort’ included many responsibilities like welcoming the guest with bouquet (why me for this job yaar….? when there were enough pretty girls in my class…), taking care of his breakfast-lunch on the way (the event was in Pune ) etc…But the most important task was to ensure that the driver from car agency arrives on time at the guest’s place with the car and the guest reaches on time at the venue of the event.

The chief-guest’s residence was at marvelous Hiranandani Gardens…and I was in the parking waiting for both of them to arrive (the driver and the guest…!)
9950…. I dialed driver’s number. He was supposed to be here at 7.30.
“Good morning sir…Sandeep Singh here from Aryan travel agency….”
I somehow noticed two unusual things during this conversation spanning 2 seconds.
First thing was driver’s fluent English and other was his polite tone.
And yaah…the guy must be above fifty….that I could make out from his voice.
‘Sandeepjee…its 7.25 .when are you coming? ‘
‘Don’t worry sir…I am reaching there in 5 mins..’
Meanwhile the guest SMSed me that he’ll be late by 15-20 mins..
At 7.30 sharp, one car arrived. One elderly sardar (must be around 55-60 ..My guess was perfect!) wearing spotless white uniform got down from the car with a broad smile on his face.
I asked him "Sandeep sing …? "
“Yes sir…I am Sandeep…"
I shook his hands.
“I hope I’m not late…”
“No Sandeepji…you are perfectly on time.”
Then there was some awkward silence for few minutes. He was first to break it.
“Sirjee , what do you do ?“
“ Sandeepji.. I said ..I am pursuing MBA from Pune and please don’t call me sir. I am just 23 year old, much younger than you. You can call me by my first name …Chinmay”
He was little amazed.
I continued “Where are you from ...How long have you been in Mumbai? "
“We are originally from Lahore,Sirjee (again Sirjee !). My father came to Mumbai at the time of partition. Since then we are ‘मुम्बईकर..”
मुम्बईकर ? Nice to hear marathi word from a sardar.
So I just took a chance " मग तुम्हाला मराठी येते का? (So can you speak Marathi?)“
He gave me one more broad & innocent smile ( in fact all sardars have innocent smile...) and said " हो...एकदम शुद्ध मराठी येते.... " ( Yes, I can speak quite fluently)
Wow, that was cool !

The guest was taking a bit long . But I was having a good chat with Sandeepsingh in various languages …...
And we were discussing many matters like Mumbai rains, bomb blasts, traffic jams, Raj Thakre etc.
Meanwhile ….I was bit hungry. I took out Hide & Seek for me and also offered him. He was little hesitant initially but reluctantly took some cookies when I insisted.

After some time, suddenly, I noticed some tears in his eyes. I said “ क्या हुआ सन्दीपजी? ..is everything fine ? “
"सरजी... एक बात बोलता हू…I am working as a driver for many top executives for last 20 years. But no one treated me, the way you are treating me now. You are treating me with respect. You are talking to me, you even offered me something to eat…that’s very rare…"
“I did nothing special Sandeepji”
“See …you are calling me Sandeep'ji’ …”
“Obviously …cause you are quite elder than me..”

"आप उम्र मे छोटे है..... आपने अभीतक दुनिया ही कहा देखी है? लोग driver के साथ इतनी अच्छी बाते नही करते…मै तो केहता हू कि …बात ही नही करते… बस खाने के लिये ५०-१०० रुपये हाथ मे थमा देते है…....People behave as if we don’t exist in the car or the car is being driven by some machine. You know sirjee..... Most of the guys never spoke a single word with me in the long journey of 8-10 hours.तो अभी जब आपने हम से इतनी बाते की ...तो हमे बहोत अच्छा लगा जी… "

Now I was speechless.

Actually, his emotional response was beyond my comprehension at that time.


What did I do? Why he was so touched by the acts which according to me were quite obvious?
Do we treat human beings based on their occupation, position in the society? I think Yes, that’s why old Sandeepsingh felt overwhelmed by my simple acts and shed tears on that morning…

14 comments:

  1. Hi Chinu,

    It was great. Expression is running in your blood as both of your parents are writers I was thinking one day you will write and yes you will write good. This is a good expression you have written here. I enjoyed reading it and was not able to stop myself from commeting on it.

    Good, keep on writing. Best of luck.

    with love,
    Pranav.

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  2. The way you've put it just like you went about it that morning is really nice. While reading it I felt “I did nothing special Sandeepji” like you said it.

    Write more :-)

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  3. My dear Chinmay,

    Very touching narration. There are two aspects to it. One, the writer and the other human being. As commented by Pranav, you have inherited the flair for writing from your parents. And the human touch? It is Swami Sivanandji and Chidanandji's blessings. This is a family heirloom with us all. This is what is going to sustain you as you go higher in your career.

    Unnecessary air about yourself will not do any good to you. What Sandeep Singh told is the reality of life. The drivers are treated like that by many. You are still at the beginning of your career. But don't forget that all human beings have the same Divine element in them when you reach the higher rungs of your career.

    All the best!

    Mukundkaka

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  4. Dear Chinu,

    Attaboy!!! I am proud of you brother.Very well written.

    I could visualise the entire narration and it was really very touching.It is so true that sometimes we don't realise how we have touched lives of perfect strangers.

    Tussi great ho paji..keep writing

    Cheers,

    Teena

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  5. Really nice Chinu...keep it up...may God bless you!
    Pradnya

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  6. @Pranavdada,Aniket,Teenadidi & Pradnyatai

    Thank you very much....
    We always feel like sharing some unsual events in our life with our near and dear ones...
    And can't have loooong chats on daily basis as we are geographically isolated.
    That was the only motive which provoked me to write something ,publish and share with you all...
    Thanks for your kind remarks...
    @Mukundkaka
    Objective analysis and very important advice indeed....Thank you for both !
    I don't think I've inherited even 1% flair of writing from my parents...They are far more superior....I don't think I can ever reach to their level...
    But as the need of sharing some experiences like these was so intense , I took the liberty of ignoring some things like style of writing,what impression I'll be creating about myself etc etc..

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  7. Very nicely written Chinmay... will wait for your next one!

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  8. chimouoy......
    i know i am late.....but this is beautiful!!! u r such a sweetheart!!! god bless you !!

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  9. @ Shireeshdada And A.Y.U.
    Thanks a Lot ! ;-)

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  10. Some Times,Things just happen and they happen to set a mark on our identity our simplicity.Your future is bright buddy ..Keep Sharing....

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  11. Some pplz have this gift to write as wat der heart says...n to put exactly wat dey feels into words...Chinmay is blessed with dis gift...
    lookin forward for more posts of urs!!!
    :-)

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  12. hi Chinmay!
    i have been reading books and always used to wonder how can the authors describe things so well that its seems as if a movie is being played in front of ur eyes. You words did the same. i could visualise the beautiful morning and the emotional conversation...!

    Grt job !!

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